Lately, your relationships haven’t been going well. You’ve had high hopes, thinking, “This time, I’ve found the person I’ll be with forever,” but something always happens to make it fall apart.
If you’re honest and look back on the relationship, you might notice most of the problems were caused by you, showing it’s not them, but you. Unintentionally, you’re ruining your relationships.
There could be many reasons why you don’t want a relationship to work out subconsciously. Perhaps you’re afraid that even if things are good, it won’t work, and you’ll end up emotionally hurt. Or, a healthy relationship might make you feel tied down.
Being completely truthful with ourselves is tough because we often see unattractive things or things that don’t match our self-image.
If you value independence, a relationship might make you feel too dependent, not aligning with how you see yourself. But without honesty, you’re likely to repeat the same mistakes.
Sometimes, even when we examine ourselves closely, we don’t see the mistakes we’re making. Maybe we’re not looking deep enough or are in such denial that it would take a therapist to help us figure it out.
If you’re okay cycling through relationships like binge-worthy TV shows, but want to understand what’s hurting your love life, astrology can provide some insights.
Here are the zodiac signs that struggle with love.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
You act impulsively and impatiently. If your partner isn’t as quick as you, conflicts arise. You act without considering others, unaware of being self-absorbed.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
You’re possessive, holding onto people tightly. This can make them feel stifled, and you need to loosen your grip to avoid losing them.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
You lack consistency, making it hard for your partner to know your feelings. This trait, though you think it’s exciting, can be frustrating for others.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
You’re overly emotional, turning everything into high drama. Your constant moodiness can be exhausting for those around you.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Your jealousy, despite confidence, damages relationships. Be confident in your love; excessive jealousy isn’t suited for you.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Your hypercritical nature strains relationships. Expecting near-perfection from your partner puts undue pressure on them.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
You’re not discriminating enough, rushing into relationships. Take time to see if you’re genuinely attracted to someone.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
Manipulation can ruin your love life. Trust your partner to make decisions; using them for your gain harms relationships.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Optimism is great, but ignoring relationship realities leads to breakdowns. Learn from mistakes instead of moving on without reflection.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
Expecting the worst can lead to self-fulfilling prophecies. Don’t miss out on joy by always anticipating failure.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
Stirring trouble for entertainment harms relationships. Find positive ways to keep things interesting; being difficult isn’t attractive.
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
Being oversensitive puts a strain on relationships. Allow your partner to express themselves without fearing upsetting you.