People often look for a soulmate when searching for that perfect partner to love.
One reason that a soulmate or twin flame connection is so desirable is a belief that a match made in heaven will result in fewer relationship problems, more romance and love that lasts for a lifetime.
It doesn’t matter what tools you use to try to find lasting, true love, what you want or need from the person you fall in love with (or decide to marry) can be defined by your zodiac sign and personal astrology or horoscope dates. Is it possible to get what you want and need from a partner with zodiac sign compatibility?
Not all relationships are one size fits all. Knowing what you want a need in a life partner is complicated.
Knowing what you need in a spouse isn’t something you can only consider if you’re already engaged to someone. In fact, you don’t even necessarily need to be dating anyone to think about what you need in a lifelong partner.
Thinking about what you need in love to make you happy is just part of life. Think of it like window shopping. You know you want a new coat for winter, and you know that you like certain fabrics, but you’re not ready to buy anything just yet.
You might see the perfect coat without really shopping one day, but for now, you just like browsing when you’re out and about.
You don’t actually have to go out and find that perfect person until you’re ready, but you can figure out what you want so that when you are ready to look for that perfect person, you don’t have to waste your time with people who aren’t serious.
Knowing that you need in a spouse is equals parts what you can bring to a relationship and what they can bring to the relationship. You might want someone who is honest and vulnerable about their emotions, but you also need to feel accepted enough to return that honesty and vulnerability.
For a lifelong relationship like marriage to work, both people need to be willing to out their egos aside for each other.
When you’re just dating someone, it can be easy to get selfish and only think about what you want or what would make you happy in the relationship, at least until you know for sure that this is the person you want to spend your life with.
But when it comes to figuring out what you need in a spouse, it can’t just be about your needs. If you intend to spend your life with someone, the decisions you make need to benefit the relationship, not just you.
This might mean putting aside what you want for what you need – which, granted, may end up being very similar, but it might be two different things, too. Maybe you want someone who can make you laugh, but what you really need is someone who accepts you for exactly who you are so that you have someone to make those dumb jokes with.
Every zodiac sign needs something different in a spouse, but everyone should look for things like acceptance, respect, kindness, loyalty, and understanding too, no matter what else they may need in a partner.
When you do find that perfect person, you have to constantly work to keep the relationship happy, but knowing that you’ve chosen the right person can help make it easier. Before you can do that, you have to know what’s important to you.
Using astrology as a guide, here is what you need in a spouse, by horoscope.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
You have enough intensity for two people, Scorpio, which is why you need a spouse who is majorly chill. This doesn’t mean that they are passive or that they don’t care, but it does mean that they are the realist in the relationship when you can’t be.
Your ideal spouse should also be your safe place. You need to know that you can count on your spouse to be honest and transparent with you, keep your secrets safe, and support you in everything you do.