Flakiness. What does this mean? What does being a flake mean and what is flaky behavior? And can your horoscope predict how flaky you are on certain days?
In a way, being a flake is akin to being somewhat irresponsible, unpredictable (in a bad way) or simply a little cray-cray. A flake will change their mind at the last moment when everything going on depends on their decision; flaky people are unreliable.
Say, for instance, you are getting together with friends. You’ve all got a goal — it could be a night out or a get-together at a musical event, or perhaps just the planning of a surprise party and each person involved plays a part. Like, Person A brings the cake, Person B brings the tickets, and Person C arranges the transportation.
The situation is built to go off without a hitch, as everyone has agreed to play their part and do their share. Then, that one person who agreed to come through with their share of the goods not only doesn’t show up, they don’t even call until way after the event is over.
We all have a flaky friend. Watch this video to learn how to deal with this awful habit of theirs:
Their explanation: “Oh! I completely forgot. Can we do it tomorrow?” They are completely oblivious to the idea that they had a responsibility to carry through, this person simply flaked out on those who depended on them.
In a relationship, people get flaky all the time, and some more than others, depending on how prone to flakiness their zodiac sign is.
Ever walk into a situation with your romantic partner, thinking you’re doing a nice thing for them, only to be greeted with a sourpuss attitude and the silent treatment?
And just as you think the day is now ruined, they suddenly spring up, wrap their arms around you and hug and kiss you madly? That’s a flake for you.
They set you up for feelings of insecurity with their actions by making themselves seem somewhat untrustworthy by behaving poorly at one moment, and then, later on, acting as if nothing ever happened. That’s flaky behavior. So, who are flakiest zodiac signs?
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Pretty high up there in terms of flake-ability. You’re a number 9 flake and this is due to the fact that it’s part of your personality to be pre-occupied to a fault.
You mean well, and you like to think of yourself as stable and directed, but when it comes to coming through for others, you’re the first one to bail.